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    Bitch, Click, and Dating: guiltlessdeviant:

aaliyahbreaux:


big-mood-energy:


aaliyahbreaux:


girldont:


flyandfamousblackgirls:

drdrunkpigeon-phd:


abstractandedgyname:


libertarirynn:

paradise-dream222:

flyandfamousblackgirls:

Shae Scott:Ā ā€œThis is why I donā€™t date ugly guys..ā€

Iā€™ve dated an ugly guy before and he was just a WASTE of my time. He didnā€™t get cocky, but he shouldā€™ve been a lil more appreciative of me. Seeing that no other girl would even look at him before I did. 

Holy fuck yā€™all are conceited. Those men are dodging bullets.



Hey, my boyfriend may not be conventionally attractive or the most attractive in the world but itā€™s almost as if when your personalities really click they become so attractive to you! But obviously, yall canā€™t do that as you need a personality to begin with.
This bitch fully is under the impression that she should date an attractive boring guy rather than an ugly boring guy, as if looks are the only defining things in relationships. How about, date an ugly [fun, interesting, caring, sex god] guy vs a hot [boring, simple, arrogant, sexually incompetent] guy.
Maybe all the ugly youā€™ve dated have been ugly on the inside too, must be if they date such a wretched creature as yourself, but news flash lady! Everyone is different for fuck sake !!!!


So when guys say women are too tall, too dark, too fat, hair not long enough, hair too ā€œnappyā€, her teeth, because she has tattoos or weave, because she wears makeup or they donā€™t wanna date her because sheā€™s transā€¦.Thats ok. But women are obligated to accept any man as he is? Interestingā€¦yall are proving her point.

Imagine openly saying you donā€™t find your SO physically attractive, thatā€™s embarrassing for yourself and the person youā€™re with.


studies show no matter how old men get typically they are most attracted to women in their twenties whereas women are most attracted to men around their age. and yet, women are seen as being superficial and shallow for just wanting to be with someone attractiveā€¦


yes, basing whether or not you date somebody on their looks is shallow.
itā€™s the definition of shallow, in fact.


shallow is dating some entirely for their looks. dating someone you find attractive is just how attration works Ugly. 


You need to be attracted to the person you date. Thatā€™s just logic. Donā€™t settle for someone youā€™re not attracted to.

The issue here is not just saying ā€œyou should someone you find attractiveā€, the issue is saying ā€œdonā€™t date ugly guysā€ as though thatā€™s some sort of objective classification and acting like youā€™re literally better than people because youā€™re more physically attractive and they should be thanking the gods if you even grace them with your presence. Thatā€™s the conceited bullshit. Also for most people attraction has to be more than physical. Physical can be a part of it but there are plenty of hot assholes.
    

        
        
        
        
        
        
        
        
    

    

        

            
            

                
                Bitch, Click, and Dating: guiltlessdeviant:

aaliyahbreaux:


big-mood-energy:


aaliyahbreaux:


girldont:


flyandfamousblackgirls:

drdrunkpigeon-phd:


abstractandedgyname:


libertarirynn:

paradise-dream222:

flyandfamousblackgirls:

Shae Scott:Ā ā€œThis is why I donā€™t date ugly guys..ā€

Iā€™ve dated an ugly guy before and he was just a WASTE of my time. He didnā€™t get cocky, but he shouldā€™ve been a lil more appreciative of me. Seeing that no other girl would even look at him before I did. 

Holy fuck yā€™all are conceited. Those men are dodging bullets.



Hey, my boyfriend may not be conventionally attractive or the most attractive in the world but itā€™s almost as if when your personalities really click they become so attractive to you! But obviously, yall canā€™t do that as you need a personality to begin with.
This bitch fully is under the impression that she should date an attractive boring guy rather than an ugly boring guy, as if looks are the only defining things in relationships. How about, date an ugly [fun, interesting, caring, sex god] guy vs a hot [boring, simple, arrogant, sexually incompetent] guy.
Maybe all the ugly youā€™ve dated have been ugly on the inside too, must be if they date such a wretched creature as yourself, but news flash lady! Everyone is different for fuck sake !!!!


So when guys say women are too tall, too dark, too fat, hair not long enough, hair too ā€œnappyā€, her teeth, because she has tattoos or weave, because she wears makeup or they donā€™t wanna date her because sheā€™s transā€¦.Thats ok. But women are obligated to accept any man as he is? Interestingā€¦yall are proving her point.

Imagine openly saying you donā€™t find your SO physically attractive, thatā€™s embarrassing for yourself and the person youā€™re with.


studies show no matter how old men get typically they are most attracted to women in their twenties whereas women are most attracted to men around their age. and yet, women are seen as being superficial and shallow for just wanting to be with someone attractiveā€¦


yes, basing whether or not you date somebody on their looks is shallow.
itā€™s the definition of shallow, in fact.


shallow is dating some entirely for their looks. dating someone you find attractive is just how attration works Ugly. 


You need to be attracted to the person you date. Thatā€™s just logic. Donā€™t settle for someone youā€™re not attracted to.

The issue here is not just saying ā€œyou should someone you find attractiveā€, the issue is saying ā€œdonā€™t date ugly guysā€ as though thatā€™s some sort of objective classification and acting like youā€™re literally better than people because youā€™re more physically attractive and they should be thanking the gods if you even grace them with your presence. Thatā€™s the conceited bullshit. Also for most people attraction has to be more than physical. Physical can be a part of it but there are plenty of hot assholes.
                
                

                
            

            
            
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aaliyahbreaux:


big-mood-energy:


aaliyahbreaux:


girldont:


flyandfamousblackgirls:

drdrunkpigeon-phd:


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    Break, House, and Live: m.ea
A local farm where I live had trouble with their flock all wanting to sleep in the same house, each night they have to go break them up. The other night they found their dog had joined in
    

        
        
        
        
        
        
        
        
    

    

        

            
            

                
                Break, House, and Live: m.ea
A local farm where I live had trouble with their flock all wanting to sleep in the same house, each night they have to go break them up. The other night they found their dog had joined in
                
            

            
            
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    Amazon, Bad, and Be Like: krista (030)
 y@cherryblushed
 i used to read 3-4 full sized
 novels in middle school. now i see
 anything longer than a paragraph
 and bounce. i'll miss u brain cells,
 can't believe u peaked at age 12
 15/9/18, 1:04 pm
 68 Retweets 238 Likes
takingbackmyfirstamendmentrights:

dewdrop156:
memecage:
It do be like that.

I was having a surprisingly good conversation with my sister recently and I was talking about how one of the reasons I donā€™t read as much as I used to is because I donā€™t have the same resources I did when I was a 4th grader. When I was a kid, I could sit and read all I wanted, all I had to to was exist and go where people took me. I didnā€™t have to feed myself or pay bills or keep track of things, which of course now I have to deal with all of those things so I canā€™t read as much and tend to read pretty easy to read books. My sister brought up the really good point that, of course I want to read easy books, Iā€™m a young adult, in a very tumultuous phase of life, constantly being thrown new information, my brain doesnt want a classical novel, my brain wants something readable and immersive. 
tl;dr donā€™t feel bad for not reading as much as you used to, itā€™s okay. Read what you can when you can and donā€™t stress about the rest


But nowadays, there are so many more resources for reading that you can gain access to. Even though youā€™re busy and stressed out my life, that doesnā€™t mean you shouldnā€™t continue to strive to read whenever possible. Iā€™ve compiled this basic list of super accessible ways to read in the modern age.1. LibbyLibby is a library app, and it free to use. If you have a library card (which you can either pick up at a branch or online, depending on where you live), you put in your information, and you have access to your libraryā€™s ebooks and audiobooks. Generally, you can check ebooks out for two to three weeks, and it gives you the option to renew (if someone isnā€™t waiting in line for that book) or return early. Itā€™s super user- friendly. If you want to scam the system a little bit, a lot of libraries give you 30 to 60 days after making a card online to come in and actually get a physical card and show your ID. If you are looking for a specific book that your library may not have, make library cards at other locations with fake addresses and check out their supply. I personally have about eight library cards, so I always can find what Iā€™m looking for unless itā€™s super rare. 2. KindleWhile you can buy the actual Amazon e-reader, you can also just use the free app. There are a bunch of ebooks you can read for free, or for a low price. If you have Kindle Unlimited ($10/month), you can borrow up to ten KU books at a time for as long as you want. A lot of authors have KU books, so itā€™s a good way to go. 3. NookBarnes and Nobleā€™s Nook is similar to the Kindleā€”comes in a physical e-reader, but is also usable as a free app. I will say I find that their selection generally costs more than Amazonā€™s selection, but itā€™s an option if you prefer to stay away from Amazon products. One thing they do sometime around the end of the year is send you out a refund check for all the books that you purchased through them that were at a higher market price then they wouldā€™ve been elsewhere. Iā€™ve gotten like three of these, so I figure itā€™s a regular thing. 4. AudibleFor people who are sight-impaired or have difficulty sitting down and reading a book, audiobooks are SO the way to go. When you sign up, you can receive up to two free audiobooks, and whatever plan you decide to go with gives you two free audiobooks a month (from a specific selection) in addition to your credits! If you have Kindle ebooks, there is sometimes an option to purchase the accompanying Audible audiobook for a super discounted rate. If you donā€™t like an audiobook, you can call in to return it at any time. I have something like forty or fifty audiobooks from them, and Iā€™ve exchanged another twenty. These options are all in addition to physical books from your local library, and discount bookstores. The nice thing about ebooks is that generally they have the option to highlight and bookmark pages, change the font size and type, and even change the color of the page if you prefer.I always thought audiobooks were for old people until a few years ago when I was commuting about three hours a day for work. I wasnā€™t reading nearly as much, and as an avid reader, that distressed me greatly.Finally, I looked into audiobooks and it was a huge life changer. Instead of wasting three hours a day in traffic, I was reading for three hours a day that I wouldā€™ve otherwise not been able to. Not only does it make a trip go faster, but it makes it much more enjoyable.And even if you donā€™t want it for the commute or for the gym, audiobooks are a really good option for people who have vision problems. I have migraines when I stare at screens too much, so I pop on an audiobook and just crochet or do the dishes. I have a friend who has very bad eyesight, and he has not been able to read in something close to a year. I set him up with a library card and a Libby account, and all of a sudden, he was able to catch up on all the books he had been wanting to read!Iā€™m just saying, I promote reading because no matter what you read, youā€™re learning something. Even though life is stressful and crazy and distracting, there are still ways you can find to sit down and curl up with a good book.

ā€œMy brother has his sword, I have my books. And a mind needs books like a sword needs a whetstone.ā€ -Tyrion Lannister 
    

        
        
        
        
        
        
        
        
    

    

        

            
            

                
                Amazon, Bad, and Be Like: krista (030)
 y@cherryblushed
 i used to read 3-4 full sized
 novels in middle school. now i see
 anything longer than a paragraph
 and bounce. i'll miss u brain cells,
 can't believe u peaked at age 12
 15/9/18, 1:04 pm
 68 Retweets 238 Likes
takingbackmyfirstamendmentrights:

dewdrop156:
memecage:
It do be like that.

I was having a surprisingly good conversation with my sister recently and I was talking about how one of the reasons I donā€™t read as much as I used to is because I donā€™t have the same resources I did when I was a 4th grader. When I was a kid, I could sit and read all I wanted, all I had to to was exist and go where people took me. I didnā€™t have to feed myself or pay bills or keep track of things, which of course now I have to deal with all of those things so I canā€™t read as much and tend to read pretty easy to read books. My sister brought up the really good point that, of course I want to read easy books, Iā€™m a young adult, in a very tumultuous phase of life, constantly being thrown new information, my brain doesnt want a classical novel, my brain wants something readable and immersive. 
tl;dr donā€™t feel bad for not reading as much as you used to, itā€™s okay. Read what you can when you can and donā€™t stress about the rest


But nowadays, there are so many more resources for reading that you can gain access to. Even though youā€™re busy and stressed out my life, that doesnā€™t mean you shouldnā€™t continue to strive to read whenever possible. Iā€™ve compiled this basic list of super accessible ways to read in the modern age.1. LibbyLibby is a library app, and it free to use. If you have a library card (which you can either pick up at a branch or online, depending on where you live), you put in your information, and you have access to your libraryā€™s ebooks and audiobooks. Generally, you can check ebooks out for two to three weeks, and it gives you the option to renew (if someone isnā€™t waiting in line for that book) or return early. Itā€™s super user- friendly. If you want to scam the system a little bit, a lot of libraries give you 30 to 60 days after making a card online to come in and actually get a physical card and show your ID. If you are looking for a specific book that your library may not have, make library cards at other locations with fake addresses and check out their supply. I personally have about eight library cards, so I always can find what Iā€™m looking for unless itā€™s super rare. 2. KindleWhile you can buy the actual Amazon e-reader, you can also just use the free app. There are a bunch of ebooks you can read for free, or for a low price. If you have Kindle Unlimited ($10/month), you can borrow up to ten KU books at a time for as long as you want. A lot of authors have KU books, so itā€™s a good way to go. 3. NookBarnes and Nobleā€™s Nook is similar to the Kindleā€”comes in a physical e-reader, but is also usable as a free app. I will say I find that their selection generally costs more than Amazonā€™s selection, but itā€™s an option if you prefer to stay away from Amazon products. One thing they do sometime around the end of the year is send you out a refund check for all the books that you purchased through them that were at a higher market price then they wouldā€™ve been elsewhere. Iā€™ve gotten like three of these, so I figure itā€™s a regular thing. 4. AudibleFor people who are sight-impaired or have difficulty sitting down and reading a book, audiobooks are SO the way to go. When you sign up, you can receive up to two free audiobooks, and whatever plan you decide to go with gives you two free audiobooks a month (from a specific selection) in addition to your credits! If you have Kindle ebooks, there is sometimes an option to purchase the accompanying Audible audiobook for a super discounted rate. If you donā€™t like an audiobook, you can call in to return it at any time. I have something like forty or fifty audiobooks from them, and Iā€™ve exchanged another twenty. These options are all in addition to physical books from your local library, and discount bookstores. The nice thing about ebooks is that generally they have the option to highlight and bookmark pages, change the font size and type, and even change the color of the page if you prefer.I always thought audiobooks were for old people until a few years ago when I was commuting about three hours a day for work. I wasnā€™t reading nearly as much, and as an avid reader, that distressed me greatly.Finally, I looked into audiobooks and it was a huge life changer. Instead of wasting three hours a day in traffic, I was reading for three hours a day that I wouldā€™ve otherwise not been able to. Not only does it make a trip go faster, but it makes it much more enjoyable.And even if you donā€™t want it for the commute or for the gym, audiobooks are a really good option for people who have vision problems. I have migraines when I stare at screens too much, so I pop on an audiobook and just crochet or do the dishes. I have a friend who has very bad eyesight, and he has not been able to read in something close to a year. I set him up with a library card and a Libby account, and all of a sudden, he was able to catch up on all the books he had been wanting to read!Iā€™m just saying, I promote reading because no matter what you read, youā€™re learning something. Even though life is stressful and crazy and distracting, there are still ways you can find to sit down and curl up with a good book.

ā€œMy brother has his sword, I have my books. And a mind needs books like a sword needs a whetstone.ā€ -Tyrion Lannister 
                
            

            
            
takingbackmyfirstamendmentrights:

dewdrop156:
memecage:
It do be like that.

I was having a surprisingly good conversation with my sister r...