Every graduating senior is scared to some degree of the future but this was on a different level When my class left our liberal arts experience we scattered to temporary gigs I worked at a dude ranch another friend nannied for the summer one got a job on a farm in New Zealand others became raft guides and transitioned to ski instructors We didn't think our first job was important it was just a job and would eventually meanderingly lead to The Job But these students were convinced that their first job out of college would not only determine their career trajectory but also their intrinsic value for the rest of their lives I told one student whose dozens of internship and fellowship applications yielded no results that she should move somewhere fun get any job and figure out what interests her and what kind of work she doesn't want to do - a suggestion that prompted wailing But what'll I tell my parents? she said I want a cool job I'm passionate about! Those expectations encapsulate the millennial rearing project in which students internalize the need to find employment that reflects well on their parents steady decently paying recognizable as a good job that's also impressive to their peers at a cool company and fulfills what they've been told has been the end goal of all of this childhood optimization doing work that you're passionate about Whether that job is as a professional sports player a Patagonia social media manager a programmer at a startup or a partner at a law firm seems to matter less than checking all of those boxes What's worse the feeling of accomplishment that follows an exhausting task passing the final! Finishing the massive work project! - never comes The exhaustion experienced in burnout combines an intense yearning for this state of completion with the tormenting sense that it cannot be attained that there is always some demand or anxiety or distraction which can't be silenced Josh Cohen a psychoanalyst specializing in burnout writes You josieandthepussycatsofficial reading this article is like staring into a mirror httpswwwbuzzfeednewscomarticleannehelenpetersenmillennials-burnout-generation-debt-work Meme





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